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This Is How I Pack

I am by no means an experienced mover.

When I moved to Victoria from Langley – my first ever move – all I had was my car full of clothes and personal items. My parents came with a truck full of furniture a few months later (I was just subletting during those months), so packing was simple. I actually did it during the night before I left, after my sister and I got home from a Rascal Flatts concert.

When Tim and I moved from that first place to where we currently are, we upgraded in square feet and it was a 15 minute drive, so we didn’t have to think too much about packing everything perfectly and correctly.

This time, the move involves a small child and a multi-day drive. I can say that packing is quite important this time around. Everybody has different ways of organizing themselves. Some people don’t organize at all. Whatever works. I could have found ideas all over Pinterest, but I feel like I have enough common sense to figure something out on my own, and this is what evolved.

Calvin really isn’t much help.

PURGING
This is one of my favourite activities! I can’t stand having things in my house that I don’t want. After our wedding, there were a number of gifts I returned (Hint: if it didn’t come with a gift receipt, google what store the brand came from and return it for store credit. You’re welcome.), so there wasn’t a whole lot of purging to be done, but there are always items or clothing you thought you would get around to using or wearing but realized you never did. So I did end up with a few good sized boxes of stuff. Some I sold, but most of it ended up at the thrift store. Well, it is currently in the trunk of my car, but it will get to the thrift store at some point in the next day and a half.

My friends regularly have clothing swaps with the remaining clothing being donated, so that helped as well.

TIDY AND ORGANIZE
I kept from using the word “clean” in that title because I am not doing any cleaning until a room is completely clear. First I am concentrating on getting things where they belong. It doesn’t make sense to me to start packing when a room is messy because you end up packing a mess which probably is not fun to unpack on the other end. I made sure all the books were on the shelves, Calvin’s toys weren’t scattered around, and such. I don’t really have knick knacks and things like that that just sit around and look pretty, so when everything is in its place, there is hardly any clutter. I also go around the house and collect things like picture frames that are naturally scattered and put them in one place because maybe I don’t want it in the same room in our new place. Packing all the frames together enables me to do all that sort of decorating all at once at the new place, instead of here and there as they come out of random boxes.

BOXING
Now I put things in boxes. The first things that get packed are things that don’t get used, like books, photo albums, and Calvin’s toys. Also, I use what I have. Dressers and cabinets get filled before boxes do. Space saver in the trailer! And this probably goes without saying, but the heavy items like books go in small boxes while light items like stuffed animals go in big boxes.

I am also finding that most rooms have items that won’t be packed until the day before we leave, for instance pillows from the couches in the living room, blankets and a couple toys in the nursery, our bedding and some clothes in our room. So what I have done is taken a box for each room and left it open there to place stuff as we no longer need them.

All the DVDs and games are in the cabinet. The box will be taped up once we are done with the cushions that will be squished in there.

I have been labeling the boxes with a quarter sheet size of white paper. The top gets the name of a room below which I put a general description of what is inside. This will be helpful because I don’t expect to be able to unpack everything in one day, so I will know which boxes are more important to open first. If it contains fragile items, I write FRAGILE on the paper in red. I tape the label to the top left of each box so whoever is helping move will know where to look for the info.

MORE TIDYING AND ORGANIZING
Yes, more! I am not done! With shelves emptied, I didn’t want them just standing around taking up space being useless, so I moved them from the living room and office all together in the dining room with the table and chairs. This freed up space in the living room to store all the empty boxes and packing paper in one place instead of scattered around the house. And the space in the office was given to full boxes. In one corner are the fragile ones and another corner holds non-fragile ones. I can point this out to the helpers, so they know more easily which boxes need extra care.

WAITING
This is where I am at right now. Everything that we won’t be using is ready to go, and everything that we need still is waiting for the move date, just like me. There are actually some kitchen items that can be boxed, but first I have to clean the kitchen. Everything else up until now had been done is spurts, but I feel like the kitchen needs to be done all at once so the mess doesn’t build up and stop me.

The closet is almost ready to go. The extra linens are in a box waiting for our bedding, and the folded clothes are in the dresser where purging has left some space. The hanging clothes will be placed in a laundry basket later.

So that has been my life the past week. An organizer’s heaven! Lots of people grumble about moving and packing, but so far my experience is not so bad.

What are your moving strategies? Any tips for me on the other end?

Goodbye Abigail’s

When I finished my hospitality diploma program at the Canadian Tourism College in Surrey, it was time to look for a job. I was open to moving anywhere in the country and looked all over for the perfect place to work. That’s when I saw Abigail’s Hotel. It caught my eye with one little picture.

(photo from www.abigailshotel.com)

Ain’t she purdy? So I sent my resume to them after looking at their website and learning that they were a boutique hotel. Totally my speed. A couple days later I was called and invited in for an interview, so my mom and I hopped on the ferry for a day in Victoria. This was only my second time in the city (the first being a field trip as part of my course). During the interview I remember being told that they still had a few people to interview, but that I sounded like a good fit. Hooray!

The next week I was called and offered the position to start as soon as I could get there. It ended up being a couple weeks because I had to find a place to live and I had tickets for a Rascal Flatts concert that I couldn’t just skip out on.

And that was how I became a Victoria resident. I found a place I wanted to work at, sent my resume, and that was that! I didn’t even know they were actually hiring. The funny part is that the guy whose position I took over returned just a few months later, and was a great coworker from whom I learned a lot and respected greatly.

I think God blessed me with this job. Looking at other people in the hospitality industry, they have completely different lifestyles than I do. If I worked at a larger property, like a Fairmont or something like that, it would have been hard to get to know people and make friends. But at Abigail’s, we were a little family. We had awesome Christmas parties, staff breakfasts every day prepared by the chef, the ladies threw me both a wedding and a baby shower. I could not have asked for more from a first career position. I love the hospitality industry and can’t wait to get back to it.

When I was pregnant, people always asked (and still do) if I was planning on going back after my year of maternity leave. In my heart I didn’t want to go back to work. Both Tim and I were blessed to have stay-at-home moms, and are hoping that I will be able to do the same. But at the same time, I knew that I might need to go back for a bit, possibly even just part time, until another child came or Tim found a full time position somewhere. Now I don’t really have to choose, because we are moving away, and there isn’t an Abigail’s in Edmonton. The great thing about it was that no matter what the outcome could have been, I am glad that I had such an awesome place to return to had I chosen to.

Thanks for the learning experiences and memories and all the opportunities to keep you guys organized!

We enjoyed one last breakfast at the hotel before headed East.

We’ve Got a Place to Live!

The most daunting part of moving to a new city is finding a place to live. We don’t know the  neighbourhoods of Edmonton, and it’s hard to imagine what a place is exactly like just by looking at photos online. Plus, who knows if they are telling the truth!

Thankfully, Tim’s boss spent some of his Airmiles and booked a flight for Tim to spend a few days there looking into rental suites. For a couple days prior to leaving, he spent a good amount of time on Kijiji (we learned that Kijiji is the UsedVictoria of Edmonton, the “go to” website of online classifieds) making contacts and scheduling viewings. It was kinda nice that I didn’t have to do any of that. It was one of those unspoken marriage agreements. He will take care of finding a place and I will take care of all the packing. I think he may have been a little unsure of whether or not he would be able to look at a place through my eyes though.

The housing market is more decent than Victoria and the Lower Mainland which is a breath of fresh air. We found for what we were paying here on the island, we could get at least one more bedroom and a dishwasher! I haven’t had a dishwasher in 4.5 years!

After just looking at a few places on day 1 of 3, Tim found us our home. It is a three bedroom main floor suite. Here are a few photos he sent me on his phone.

As you can see, it is well kept and recently updated. I am not huge on black appliances. I am way more partial to the more friendly white varieties. And having that much hard flooring means we will have to buy some more area rugs. But I am greatly looking forward to living in a place that was meant to be lived in, meaning I don’t have a kitchen that was built into the corner of a living space, or a dining room that is a couple inches higher than my kitchen because it was built where a garage used to be. Light switches will be in places that make sense and the layout will be normal. Plus, there is a window by the kitchen sink! How great is that?! Not to mention the dishwasher.

It is looking like I will have to imagine what it is like as a whole for just over a week. We are aiming to leave next Wednesday. I am quite excited! And not only for the remaining of the packing I have to do. :)

Why I Started a Blog

People have all sorts of reasons they blog. Perhaps they want to show off their photography or writing skills. Maybe they want to review books or movies. Possibly they share what they do around their house. None of these are my reasons.

When we learned we were going to move, Tim told me I should start a blog. I don’t really know why, but it was probably because he just wanted me to have something to do in our new city. I immediately dismissed the idea thinking that it would be boring and I would never have anything to say.

As time went on, I started thinking about it more and more, and I came up with a reason why a blog might be a good idea.

I am a homebody at heart. I like to hang around my house. I don’t find many reasons to go out and do things and have fun around town. When I moved from the mainland to the island, I was forced to get out and do stuff because I had to know everything the city had to offer for my job at the hotel. In Edmonton, I don’t have that to push me. I figured if I have a blog to keep me accountable, I will continually seek out new things to do and share my experiences. It will be my motivation to not be a hermit.

A secondary reason is to keep the family up to date. With the exception of one brother who is attending school in Edmonton, all of our immediate family and the majority of our friends and extended family are in BC, or at least not anywhere near Edmonton. We have a son whose grandparents will miss watching him grow up and learn new things. As much as Facebook is good for sharing photos and such, having a place to write stories and anecdotes seems a lot more personal, which is a little ironic since my Facebook profile is private and this blog is public.

Some things you can expect to read about here are:

  • an account of our move
  • setting up our new place
  • photos of Calvin’s cute face
  • stories of my adventures around Edmonton
  • things I learn about living in a completely different climate than I am used to
  • and other stuff too…feel free to suggest topics

I am glad you stopped by to check this out, and hope to see you back here soon! Please say “Hi!”.

I plan on getting Tim to help me change colours and things to make it pretty and appealing, so check back!

Here is a picture to leave you with, just because blogs are more interesting that way.

Calvin at the beach…something he won’t be able to do for long.